Hi HARO Readers,

I’m a fellow HARO addict (thank you Peter!) and I’m excited to share with you my first book, released today from HarperCollins. It’s called The Power of Eye Contact: Your Secret For Success in Business, Love and Life.

You might think I’m completely nuts for spending a year writing an entire book on eye contact. But, if anything you value in your life comes through interacting with people face-to-face (think: sales, business relationships, dating, romance, love, and sex), then I believe this book is going to be a very important read for you.

My thesis is, nearly all of the “good stuff” in life comes from interacting face-to-face with others, and how well you make eye contact has a huge effect on how well your social interactions go.

Yet, it is possible to botch eye contact. It can be done very, very poorly. Or not at all. It can be done in a way that repels rather than attracts. There are so many ways eye contact can go wrong. There is a good chance you are making some of these mistakes right now, without knowing it. In fact, some of your social interactions may not be going as well as you’d hoped because of it.

However, good eye contact is a skill that can be learned. Master this skill, and you will instantly begin to notice three things.

• You will start meeting more people right away

• Your connections with the people you already know will deepen

• You will feel, look, and act more confident.

It is no exaggeration to say that mastering the art of effective eye contact could be one of the most impactful things you ever do in a short amount of time.

So, if you’re curious about how better eye contact could improve your social life, how can you learn it?

Well, there’s a simple way: Buy my book! The book covers topics like:

  • How to become a master of eye contact in weeks (It’s easier than you think)
  • The top eye contact mistakes you’re probably making right now that might be harming your flirting, dating and attraction and repelling your dream mate
  • How to use eye contact to be the most magnetic person in the room
  • How the best networkers, salespeople, and public speakers use eye contact to create trust, intimacy, and connection with people around them
  • A secret, little-known eye gazing practice that will add deep connection to your relationships and extra sizzle to your sex

t’s only ten bucks on Amazon. That’s about the price of a cocktail in Manhattan these days (if you’re lucky). I promise you, this book will have a bigger impact on your social life than yet another cocktail!

If you want to make this investment in your social life, buy the book on Amazon now–it’s out today!


Michael Ellsberg

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Welcome Power of Eye Contact Readers

by Michael Ellsberg on April 22, 2010

Enter your name and email below and I’ll give you access to:

  • Free e-book “How to Host an Eye Gazing Party” Eye Gazing Parties are social events based on eye contact. They’ve been held across the world and have been featured in the New York Times, CNN, Good Morning America, and in The Four-Hour Workweek (pp. 60-61). Elle magazine called them “New York’s Hottest Dating Trend.” This free e-book teaches you how to host one yourself and experience the fun, magic and community connection of eye gazing yourself.
  • Free MP3 Audio Classes “How Eye Contact Can Help You Attract Your Soulmate and Deepen Your Love” and “7 Sizzling-Hot Eye Contact Secrets Every Woman Needs to Know”
  • I’ll also put you on my e-newsletter, and send you eye contact tips and advice, articles, invites to free teleclasses, events, and Eye Gazing Parties. (No spam EVER, and you can remove yourself from this list at anytime with one click.)

See you in the gaze!


–MIchael Ellsberg

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Eye Gazing and Ecstasy: An Eyes-On Workshop

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We all know that attraction doesn’t just have to do with physical appearance. Why is it that one woman–who in a photo might be drop-dead gorgeous–can walk in a room and not make much of an impression at all… While another woman–whom you might deem plain if you just saw a photo of her–can walk […]

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