Hi HARO Readers,

I’m a fellow HARO addict (thank you Peter!) and I’m excited to share with you my first book, released today from HarperCollins. It’s called The Power of Eye Contact: Your Secret For Success in Business, Love and Life.

You might think I’m completely nuts for spending a year writing an entire book on eye contact. But, if anything you value in your life comes through interacting with people face-to-face (think: sales, business relationships, dating, romance, love, and sex), then I believe this book is going to be a very important read for you.

My thesis is, nearly all of the “good stuff” in life comes from interacting face-to-face with others, and how well you make eye contact has a huge effect on how well your social interactions go.

Yet, it is possible to botch eye contact. It can be done very, very poorly. Or not at all. It can be done in a way that repels rather than attracts. There are so many ways eye contact can go wrong. There is a good chance you are making some of these mistakes right now, without knowing it. In fact, some of your social interactions may not be going as well as you’d hoped because of it.

However, good eye contact is a skill that can be learned. Master this skill, and you will instantly begin to notice three things.

• You will start meeting more people right away

• Your connections with the people you already know will deepen

• You will feel, look, and act more confident.

It is no exaggeration to say that mastering the art of effective eye contact could be one of the most impactful things you ever do in a short amount of time.

So, if you’re curious about how better eye contact could improve your social life, how can you learn it?

Well, there’s a simple way: Buy my book! The book covers topics like:

• How to become a master of eye contact in weeks (It’s easier than you think)
• The top eye contact mistakes you’re probably making right now that might be harming your flirting, dating and attraction and repelling your dream mate
• How to use eye contact to be the most magnetic person in the room
• How the best networkers, salespeople, and public speakers use eye contact to create trust, intimacy, and connection with people around them
• A secret, little-known eye gazing practice that will add deep connection to your relationships and extra sizzle to your sex

t’s only ten bucks on Amazon. That’s about the price of a cocktail in Manhattan these days (if you’re lucky). I promise you, this book will have a bigger impact on your social life than yet another cocktail!

If you want to make this investment in your social life, buy the book on Amazon now–it’s out today!

Sincerely,

Michael Ellsberg

Enter your name and email below and I’ll give you access to:

• Free e-book “How to Host an Eye Gazing Party” Eye Gazing Parties are social events based on eye contact. They’ve been held across the world and have been featured in the New York Times, CNN, Good Morning America, and in The Four-Hour Workweek (pp. 60-61). Elle magazine called them “New York’s Hottest Dating Trend.” This free e-book teaches you how to host one yourself and experience the fun, magic and community connection of eye gazing yourself.
• Free MP3 Audio Classes “How Eye Contact Can Help You Attract Your Soulmate and Deepen Your Love” and “7 Sizzling-Hot Eye Contact Secrets Every Woman Needs to Know”
• I’ll also put you on my e-newsletter, and send you eye contact tips and advice, articles, invites to free teleclasses, events, and Eye Gazing Parties. (No spam EVER, and you can remove yourself from this list at anytime with one click.)

See you in the gaze!

Yours,

–MIchael Ellsberg

Eye Gazing and Ecstasy: An Eyes-On Workshop
Wednesday, 4/28, 7:30PM
Booksmith
1644 Haight St.
San Francisco, CA 94117 (Map)
Facebook Event Page

We all know that the eyes are the window of the soul. Are you walking around with the curtains to these windows closed to the world?

In this eye-opening workshop, you will learn the history and evolution of eye contact, and then you will receive practical instruction on how to improve the quality of your eye contact, with friends, loved ones, lovers, and even strangers, for fostering intimacy, connectedness, and trust.

For the second half of the workshop, you will have the opportunity to experience for yourself the interconnectedness, trance, ego dissolution and ecstasy that can come from deep, prolonged gazing into another’s eyes, as a meditative practice. Sages, yoginis, dakinis, mystics and poets throughout the ages–including Rumi–have seen eye gazing as one of the most powerful and subtle experiences two humans can share. Come experience this power for yourself.

ABOUT THE FACILITATOR:

Michael Ellsberg is the founder of Eye Gazing Parties, the world’s first singles events based on eye contact. These were featured in the New York Times, CNN, Good Morning America, and major media around the globe. People who attend them report having profound experiences with many new and exciting people at each event.

This event celebrates the release of his book “The Power of Eye Contact: Your Secret for Success in Business, Love and Life” (HarperCollins). Michael will be signing books at the event!

Dear Friends,

Question: what is a simple technique you can use to radically improve your chances of attracting the man of your dreams, or profoundly deepen your love, intimacy, and connection if you’re already in a relationship?

The answer is eye contact.

Your most powerful body-language seduction tools are not your lips, your hips, or your boobs. It’s your eyes.

Yet, the vast majority of women have never properly learned how to use eye contact for attraction, flirtation and seduction, let alone for deepening intimacy and feeling more connected.

It’s a shame, because, if you don’t know how to use your most powerful attraction tools, think of all the opportunities for love that are passing you by.

Your perfect man could be about to walk down the street, right past you, in the next day, and you could miss him because you missed a second of solid eye contact.

Wouldn’t that be a shame?

And if you’re in a relationship, even if your connection is already deep, you could be missing on powerful levels of connection and intimacy you didn’t even know were possible, simply by learning how to peer into the windows of each other’s souls with more presence and attention.

We all know that attraction doesn’t just have to do with physical appearance.

Why is it that one woman–who in a photo might be drop-dead gorgeous–can walk in a room and not make much of an impression at all…

While another woman–whom you might deem plain if you just saw a photo of her–can walk in a room and have all the men eating out of her palm?

You can be attractive no matter what shape or size you are…

No matter what you’re wearing…

No matter whether it’s a bad hair day or a great hair day…

If you just follow one simple secret.

It’s a secret many attractive women know. And by “attractive,” I’m not talking about the ones who just look pretty in magazines.

I’m talking about the woman who, no matter what she looks like on the outside, can walk into a room and have the whole room buzzing about her… all the men walking up to her and wanting to talk with her… all the other women complimenting her on how great she looks.

These woman, who come in all shapes and sizes, have become expert at wielding a specific pair of body parts on their front side…

And no, it’s not that pair, silly!

The hottest women are hot in person because they’ve mastered the art of using their eyes..

And more specifically, of using eye contact, for the purpose of attraction, seduction, charm, and allure.

What You Don’t Know About Eye Contact Can Hurt You!

You spend hundreds or even thousands of dollars to get the perfect clothes to look as sexy as possible.

You spend hours over the course of a month getting your hair and makeup right.

You spend hours on the treadmill (or beating yourself up for not being on the treadmill!) to get the hottest body.

So wouldn’t it be a shame if all that effort to look your best and be your most sexy self was going to waste, simply because you were botching the *one simple thing* that counts more than anything else for being seen as a sexy, attractive woman?

My name is Michael Ellsberg, and I’ve just written a book called The Power of Eye Contact: Your Secret For Success in Business, Love and Life, coming out from HarperCollins in a few months.

In the process of writing this book, I interviewed some of the top experts on dating and attraction for women. And they all said the same thing: your eyes are your most important tool for attraction.

Now, in this free class “How to Use Eye Contact to Attract Your Soul Mate and Deepen Your Love and Intimacy,” you will learn:

• A single eye contact secret that will have tons of cute guys coming up and talking to you within minutes, anytime, anywhere
• A simple technique that will allow you to become world-class at eye contact, within weeks, if not days, with hardly an effort
• How to use eye contact to make your sex sizzle–tonight!
• How to get your man to look you deeply in your eyes in that sexy, seductive way that makes you melt
• How to use your eyes to become the most magnetic woman in the room–whether it’s a party, a dinner, or a business meeting

My first date with my lovely fiancée took place in a loud salsa club, which meant that almost all our communication for the first few hours of our date happened with our eyes. Now we’re about to be married, and it all started with a powerful gaze.

What could happen in your life if you intentionally learned the secrets of this all-powerful form of silent communication?

What negative signals are you giving off with your eyes that you’re not even aware of?

And what would change in your life if you started sending out the right signals with your eyes?

Join me and my friend, relationship expert Liyana Silver, for this FREE class, “How to Use Eye Contact to Attract Your Soul Mate and Deepen Your Love”. It’s available to you on the media player at the bottom of this post.

And, while the class is totally free whether you buy my book or not, it would mean a lot to me if you’d help me launch my book The Power of Eye Contact: Your Secret for Success in Business, Love and Life, by ordering it now on Amazon through the preceding link.

It’s under $10 on Amazon, and it could change your life forever–it could be the missing link that helps you find your soul mate, or helps you deepen your connection with your guy beyond what you ever thought was possible.

And either way, enjoy the class!

Yours in the gaze,

–Michael Ellsberg

Play the class from this page on the media player below, or download it by right clicking here and selecting “Save Link As” (Ctrl-click on Mac)

Ladies, Academy Award winning actress Marion Cotillard has this video on how to get guys to finally start making eye contact with you…

No, seriously though, this video serves as a reminder to guys that you’ll get a lot farther in life if you train your eyes on that pair of round body parts above the neck line, not the round pair below the neck line.

We all know that attraction doesn’t just have to do with physical appearance.

Why is it that one woman–who in a photo might be drop-dead gorgeous–can walk in a room and not make much of an impression at all…

While another woman–whom you might deem plain if you just saw a photo of her–can walk in a room and have all the men eating out of her palm?

You can be attractive no matter what shape or size you are…

No matter what you’re wearing…

No matter whether it’s a bad hair day or a great hair day…

If you just follow one simple secret.

It’s a secret many attractive women know. And by “attractive,” I’m not talking about the ones who just look pretty in magazines.

I’m talking about the woman who, no matter what she looks like on the outside, can walk into a room and have the whole room buzzing about her… all the men walking up to her and wanting to talk with her… all the other women complimenting her on how great she looks.

These woman, who come in all shapes and sizes, have become expert at wielding a specific pair of body parts on their front side…

And no, it’s not that pair, silly!

The hottest women are hot in person because they’ve mastered the art of using their eyes..

And more specifically, of using eye contact, for the purpose of attraction, seduction, charm, and allure.

What You Don’t Know About Eye Contact Can Hurt You!

You spend hundreds or even thousands of dollars to get the perfect clothes to look as sexy as possible.

You spend hours over the course of a month getting your hair and makeup right.

You spend hours on the treadmill (or beating yourself up for not being on the treadmill!) to get the hottest body.

So wouldn’t it be a shame if all that effort to look your best and be your most sexy self was going to waste, simply because you were botching the *one simple thing* that counts more than anything else for being seen as a sexy, attractive woman?

My name is Michael Ellsberg, and I’ve just written a book called The Power of Eye Contact: Your Secret For Success in Business, Love and Life, coming out from HarperCollins in a few months.

In the process of writing this book, I interviewed some of the top experts on dating and attraction for women. And they all said the same thing: your eyes are your most important tool for attraction.

Now, in this free downloadable class, you will learn:

• A single eye contact secret that will have tons of cute guys coming up and talking to you within minutes, anytime, anywhere
• A simple technique that will allow you to become world-class at eye contact, within weeks, if not days, with hardly an effort
• How to use eye contact to make your sex sizzle–tonight!
• How to get your man to look you deeply in your eyes in that sexy, seductive way that makes you melt
• How to use your eyes to become the most magnetic woman in the room–whether it’s a party, a dinner, or a business meeting
• The three biggest mistakes you’re probably making right now that kills your attraction

My first date with my lovely fiancée took place in a loud salsa club, which meant that almost all our communication for the first few hours of our date happened with our eyes. Now we’re about to be married, and it all started with a powerful gaze.

What could happen in your life if you intentionally learned the secrets of this all-powerful form of silent communication?

What negative signals are you giving off with your eyes that you’re not even aware of?

And what would change in your life if you started sending out the right signals with your eyes?

Join me and my fiancée Jena la Flamme for this FREE class, “The 7 Sizzling-Hot Eye Contact Secrets All Women Need to Know”.

To download the class, simply fill out your name and email on the form below. I’ll also put you on my newsletter to receive occasional invitations to other free live tele-classes like this one. (No spam EVER, and you can remove yourself from the list at any time with one click.)

And, while the class is totally free whether you buy my book or not, it would mean a lot to me if you’d help me launch my book The Power of Eye Contact: Your Secret for Success in Business, Love and Life, by pre-ordering it now on Amazon through the preceding link. If anything I’ve written here intrigues you or piques your curiosity, then my book–which is just under $10 on Amazon–could change your life forever. I hope you’ll check it out!

And either way, enjoy the class!

Yours in the gaze,

–Michael Ellsberg

P.S. You’ve probably spent a lot of time learning about how clothes and makeup make you as attractive as possible. But the secrets we’ll be learning in this free class make clothes and makeup pale in comparison to the power of eye contact. Your eyes and eye contact truly are the queen of all attraction. Learn to use them for maximum effect in this eye-popping free class. To register, simply enter your email in the form above, and I’ll send you the details for how to join the class.

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